Ya Allah, Jika ini bukan masanya, Jika ini belum saatnya, Dan jika Engkau tahu kami belum bersedia, Selamatkan kami, Jarakkan kami, Pisahkan kami, Agar kami jauh dari khilaf yang merosakkan izzah dan iffah, Agar kami tidak mengundang murkaMu, Agar kami dapat lebih menjaga hati, Agar hati menjadi yang diredhai Ilahi. Ya Allah, Andai dia bukan untukku, Andai dia bukan jodohku, Maka berilah ganti yang lebih baik buatnya, Kurniakanlah dia insan yang benar terbaik dalam kehidupannya, Insan yang benar mampu memimpinnya ke syurgaMu, Dan bantulah aku untuk terus memperbaiki diriku, Agar aku kukuh dalam mencari cintaMu (❤), Amin Ya Rabbal Alamin.


written by Qalesyasophia

“She believed in me when no one else did; she accepted Islam when people rejected me; and she helped and comforted me when there was no one else to lend me a helping hand.” 

— Beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) relates to his first wife Khadijah.

#Wordless Wednesday

11 more days :)

DECEMBER BABY

This straight-up means you are the most good-looking person possible… Better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves music. Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive.

macam monyet

"Ya Allah, sebagaimana Engkau pernah menghantar burung-burung ababil untuk menghancurkan tentera bergajah Musyrikin, maka kami memohon padaMu Ya Allah, turunkanlah bantuanMu kali ini kepada saudara-mara kami di bumi Palestin, syria, dan di mana shj umt islam ditindas.. dan hancurkanlah tentera Zionis laknatullah!"

How I screw up a relationship

for a very long time, i wonder how and why...despite of me loving someone unconditionally, those people will end up leaving and never returned.

1) Frequently having an emotional breakdown - I seriously don't know why, but most of the time of the week, i'll have like a very depressing day. Nobody can stand this, unless they have few good memories that they've enjoyed with me.

2) I am very slow at interpreting other's emotion - yeah i admit i really wan't other people to understand me all the time....but i'll never intend to understand them in return *yeah, guilty*. It's like for me, why do i have to take time to get to know people, while i still don't know myself yet.

3) Hotheaded - very easily getting mad. well yeah, i'm still lacking in anger-management. sometimes i just spill my anger out on somebody that pissed me off. It IS bad....but i really do easily cool off...and 100% guarantee i will not remember what wrong that people have done to me. The type of person who easily forgive & forget. :)

4) Intolerance - I don't care what people must go through to make me happy...if they make me upset, i just don't care to listen to their excuses & good reasons why they are late or didn't return my call or text.

5) Selfish - I just blurted out any words that i wan't to say if i'm angry to other people. I don't care whether they will become upset or not. I just ignore them if I feel uneasy..and i push them to follow whatever things that they have to do to make myself happy.

that's all i can think of for now. And yes, i have to stop complaining why i'm alone all my life. Not a single day passed by without feeling lonely. I can change. I need to change.

Female Sahabiah

Copy & paste dari status one of my friend from Facebook. It helped me a lot

"Harap Muslimah-Muslimah dapat membaca ~

Nasihat dari the real Imam Muda. Ustaz Zakuan a.k.a Ibnu Batoota yang dah merantau ke segenap pelosok dunia berdakwah walaupun umurnya masih remaja.

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Nasihat beliau buat semua Muslimat:-

..."Adakah muslimah-muslimah zaman sekarang sudah hilang semangat jihadnya?

Sudah hilang kekuatan hati?

Sudah hilang ketabahannya?

Bukan aku nak suruh perempuan-perempuan Islam jadi ganas, cuma aku terfikir bila terbaca kisah-kisah sahabiah, mereka lemah lembut tapi sangat kental, hati sekuat besi waja, tak mudah cair dengan lelaki ajnabi (bukan mahram), tak meleleh-leleh bila cakap pasal cinta, tak tergedik-gedik bila lelaki cuit.

Maka aku pun mengambil langkah untuk jadikan facebook ku sebagai malaikat maut bagi kaum Hawa, untuk mentarbiah hati mereka agar kuat, kental dan tabah!

Kalau hari-hari aku bagi status meleleh-leleh, cinta kerana Allah, lelaki soleh untnk perempuan solehah, cinta itu fitrah, carilah suami soleh dan benda-benda leleh yg lain...

"Muslimah yang terhasil nanti macam mana?"

Walaupun ( di fb & realiti ) bertudung, berpurdah, bertudung labuh, ikut usrah, ikut masturat;

Tapi cuit sikit, dah tergedik-gedik...Ngurat sikit, dah sangkut....Ajak couple sikit, terus setuju...Lepas tu, putus cinta,meleleh2...Ada masalah sikit, doa nak mati..Kena marah dengan mak/ayah sikit, buat status cakap tak pernah bahagia...Exam failed, kata taknak hidup lagi...Pakwe tak mesej sehari, di status penuh dengan kata-kata rindu...Pakwe marah sikit, buat status meleleh macam haram...

Fikir secara waras, adakah ini sifat wanita yg ditarbiah oleh Rasulullah SAW ketika zaman Baginda SAW?

Nama Saidatina Fatimah, Aisyah, Khadijah, Safiyyah, Ummu Salamah, Ummu Habibah, Sumayyah, Ummu Darda', Masyitah, Balqis, Maryam dan ramai lagi diagung-agungkan kalian. Tapi apa kalian kenal siapa mereka? Bagaimana hebat dan kentalnya hati mereka? Ikut sikap dan akhlak mereka?

Memang akal kalian senipis rambut, tapi kalian bukan BODOH...

Aku datang sebagai pengetuk kepala kalian untuk bangun dari tidur, untuk sedarkan kalian supaya jangan jadi bodoh, jangan jadi hamba lelaki, jangan jadi hamba cinta haram, jangan jadi perempuan murahan, jangan kapel free2 macam bohsia, jangan dok bermanja dengan lelaki macam perempuan tiada harga...

Nabi SAW telah bersabda mafhumnya (au kama qaal), jika seorang lelaki mendapat wanita solehah sebagai isteri, maka separuh agamanya telah sempurna...

Apa kalian sedar 'kesolehahan' kalian itu harganya separuh dari agama?

note:

"Ada mata dan telinga kan semua?"

"Subhanallah""